Sometimes All We Need is a Good Cry

Yes, I really love this Korean drama. And, I really really love this song. It is my fave song from this drama. This song and its lyrics are so touching I had to post it. I will never be able to erase this song from my memory. I think this song fits perfectly for them. I feel sad every time I hear it. (I cant help feeling sad. Am I overreacting? YES, I AM!) It makes me cry. (I am such a crybaby. I know I AM!) The tears would just come out every freakin' time!


I find it is a really sad song beforehand knowing what the song meant. Now it means more to me with the English translation. It always touches me every time I listen to it. Every time I sing it or hear the song, it reminds me of so many things. The lyrics is just so heartbreaking. OMG it hurts cant help but cry! 


When you have a good cry, it might feel painful and embarrassing at the time, but you feel better afterwards. It we have spent a lifetime suppressing our sadness, we may actually need some practice crying in order to get back in touch with how we feel. Even if you are a guy and you cry, there is nothing wrong with it. I hate it whey guys it is shameful to cry! Only egoistic guys think it is shameful? Real men "DON'T CRY"!? Let me rephrase this sentence. REAL MEN DON'T CRY IN FRONT OF PEOPLE! As if they never cried before?! Hide and cry? Under the bed? In a corner? Well, that is even shameful! Crying is our natural way of releasing emotions of sadness or loss. So...Cry, people! :p


Random Script : Whenever I am feeling sad/stresses/upset I will listen to it. It instantly makes me cry. :'( I feel so much better after a good cry. :) 

Everyday I wake up,
Hoping to get a fresh start.
Praying I can undo,
The mistakes I've done to you.

Everyday it's the same thing,
My memories come to haunt me.
I never knew it'd come to this,
And now I'm regretting it.

Basically I'm saying sorry...
Sorry for my stupidity.
If you find it in your heart to forgive me,
I thank you with full sincerity.

But if you find it too hard to do so, 
It's all right, who can blame you?
If there's even anyone to blame, it's me...
ME AND MY STUPIDITY!



P/S : I am not good enough..... I hate this feeling that I am not good enough for people. I am so tired of trying to fight this feeling. I hate myself! I feel like I am never going to be good enough for anyone! Just to clarify, I am not writing this to get attention! 

I may not have the best life but its the one I got and I am stuck with it.

But no matter what, I will always love everyone in it.

And when things are really bad, I just gotta think about the good and should be fine.

When things things are absolutely terrible, I just gotta straighten up and say everything is gonna be alright.

No matter how many scars I get,

No matter how many tears I shed,
I gotta stay strong no matter what comes my way.

I know God didn't gave me life for no apparent reason.

So whatever happens, I just gotta stay strong forever! :)

ALL ABOUT FOOD @ KL! :)

Yesterday was a great day. My bro-in-law brought us (Me, Cindy, Felicia and KP) to Jalan Alor, KL to have our dinner. My sister stayed at home. Haha. It's her confinement period. Happy Confinement, Elena! Haha. FOOD AGAIN! Kuala Lumpur is all about eating, and the best eating isn't in the air-conditioned restaurants. The best place is eating in Jalan Alor. It was formerly known as the Red Light district of KL. The stalls are parked all along the street. Both sides of Jalan Alor are lined by endless rows of ‘mamak’ stalls and outdoor restaurants, interspersed with hawker stands selling fruits, barbequed meats, hanging ducks, and so on. I heard the satay is excellent, as are the many Chinese foods. For those who have never been there, it's a waste! I strongly recommend this place for food lovers! You’ll see and hear things not experienced in many other parts of KL. And, you won’t be able to fully describe your experience to friends back home. 

This is the second time I have been there. Hendry took 10 mins to reach there. OMG? He literally speeds. The crowd along this road is like so happening. Got a lot of leng zaiS and leng luiS! And, foreigners. Guess what we had for our dinner? Lol. FROG PORRIDGE! It was my first time eating frog. (=.=) Hendry ordered "Kung Pou" frog porridge for us. It's very famous. Serving mainly frogs cooked in two different ways, you may have your frogs in porridge with sliced ginger (plain frog porridge), or have it cooked "kung pou" style. The "kung pou" style is just frogs cooked with dried chilli, hence it is very, very spicy. I tried and I was speechless. Oh my goodness, it was heavenly good! (thumbs up) I was so scared at first but noww.... It tastes a real yummy.... With the Plain Porridge, the "Kung Pou" gravy was then poured into it and add in some frogs meat, have a sip and you will be able to get the Ooommmpppphhh sensation! Truly delicious! The place is not very clean, but it has all the ambience of a true Malaysian hawker scene. Last but not least, exotic meat like frogs are not very cheap in Malaysia, therefore, be ready to pay a higher price for the frog porridge, but the meal is very delicious! Try it yourself and you will know how delicious they are. 

Besides the Frog Porridge, he also ordered one plate of Oyster Omelette too from the next door stall. Hmm... this Oyster Omelette was rather different with those that I had before at other places as it was crispy like a Pancake while the oysters were somehow placed separately from the omelette! I love this, too. It tastes superb! It is worth trying so YOU CANNOT MISS IT! 

After we had our frog porridge, we realized we were not full yet. Lol.. He brought us to Famous Ngau Kee Beef Noodle at Jalan Tengkat Tong Shin. We walked there. I know it's famous because the signboard says so. Hendry ordered 2 bowls Mixed Pork with Dry Noodles, 2 bowls of Pork Soup with Pork balls and a bowl of Beef Soup with Beef balls. The kueh toew-like noodles were springy and and firm to bite. The pork soup was nice. I don't really like beef so I have got no comments. He finished up the beef soup. Lol.. I was so, so FULL! Thanks to Hendry. I had a really great experience! AWESOME experience! :)

P/S : My phone is spoilt, so I couldn't snap a picture of the Frog Porridge. :(

GOOD NEWS! Guess what?  I am officially an AUNT! Lol.. I have visited my baby nephew today. Kim tagged along. Amy and Kim have just came back from holidays in Melaka. And guess what she brought home? FOOD!!! MALACCA FOOD!!! Ok, back to my baby nephew. He is so, so cute! This baby made my day. I am bit envious of him. Haha. My sister and bro-in-law are doing a great job. They are great parents, seriously. I am so happy for them. (It sounds dramatic, I know! haha...) When she was pregnant, it makes me want to have a baby. But I changed my mind after she delivered her baby. After seeing her going through all these things, I felt it is not easy to give birth. So perhaps, abortion could be easy. (I am being sarcastic.) Sorry, I do not have any picture of my nephew. =(

2ND GOOD NEWS! Belle gave birth to 4 huskies 2 months ago. They are so, so adorable! I feel so proud of Max and Belle even though they are not mine. Haha. They belong to my sister and bro-in-law. I have visited them, too. And, Damien (my sis's pomeranian) not to forget Teddy (my sis-in-law's poodle)

My sister and bro-in-law. This picture was taken few years back... They looked young. 

 Belle and Max. This picture was taken last year. Itu kaki Hendry! haha

Toldcha, they are SO ADORABLE! <3 

Sorry, they are NOT FOR SALE! =(

Me and one of the huskies! =)

Captured by Hendry using his Iphone 4. I am bit envious of him! HAHAHA!

P/S : Sorry again... :P

All The Things You Never Knew

Ni Bu Zhi Dao De Shi (Translation)

By:Wang Lee Hom

How many times does a butterfly blink

Before it learns to fly?
The sky is sprinkled over with countless stars
But how many will remain there?

Even as I fly, you fall
So close I can hear you breathe
So sorry I didn't keep hold of you

You don't know why I had to leave you
How I could ignore you every cry
All the while the downpour of your tears shattering the ground
So clearly pierced my heart
You don't know why I had to keep away
Circling in the sky above, just out of sight
So many are the things you never knew

How many times does a butterfly blink
Before it learns to fly?
The sky is sprinkled over with countless stars
But how many will there remain?
Even as I fly, you fall
So close I can hear you breathe
So sorry I didn't keep hold of you

You don't know why I had to leave you
How I couldn't ignore you every cry
All the while the downpour of your tears shattering the ground
So clearly pierced my heart
You don't know why I had to keep away
Circling in the sky above, just out of sight
So many are the things you never knew

Even as I fly, you fall

You don't know why I had to leave you
How I could ignore you every cry
All the while the downpour of your tears shattering the ground
So clearly pierced my heart
You don't know why I had to keep away
Circling in the sky above, just out of sight
Too many are the things you never knew

Credited to Wang Leehom <3


Random Script : I fcuking love this song. Anyhow, I love the lyrics of the song. I also love the way he plays the piano. Superb! He looks great. And he still looks charming as hell. He is charming in both looks and how he talks. :)

Did You Marry The Right Person? - A Worth Reading Post

This is a very good article, got it from an online buddy's page.

Those who are still single may learn something from here...
Those who are already married may take it as a guideline to improve your marriage & relationship ...

DID I MARRY THE RIGHT PERSON?

During one of our seminars, a woman asked a common question. She said, 'How do I know if I married the right person?'
I noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her so I said, 'It depends. Is that your husband?'
In all seriousness, she answered 'How do you know?'

Let me answer this question because the chances are good that it's weighing on your mind.

Here's the answer.
EVERY relationship has a cycle. In the beginning, you fell in love with your spouse/partner. You anticipated their call, wanted their touch, and liked their idiosyncrasies (unconventional behavior/habit).

Falling in love with your spouse wasn't hard. In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience. You didn't have to DO anything. That's why it's called 'falling' in love... Because it's happening TO YOU.

People in love sometimes say, 'I was swept off my feet.' Think about the imagery of that expression.
It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something came along and happened TO YOU.

Falling in love is easy. It's a passive and spontaneous experience. But after a few years of marriage, the euphoria (excitement) of love fades. It's the natural cycle of EVERY relationship. Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens), and your spouse's idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, drive you nuts.

The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship, but if you think about your marriage, you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage.

At this point, you and/or your spouse might start asking, 'Did I marry the right person?' And as you and your spouse reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, you may begin to desire that experience with someone else. This is when marriages breakdown. People blame their spouse for their unhappiness and look outside their marriage for fulfillment.

Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes. Infidelity is the most obvious. But sometimes people turn to work, a hobby, a friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances.

But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your marriage. It lies within it. I'm not saying that you couldn't fall in love with someone else. You could.

And TEMPORARILY you'd feel better. But you'd be in the same situation a few years later. Because (listen carefully to this):

THE KEY TO SUCCEEDING IN MARRIAGE IS NOT FINDING THE RIGHT PERSON; IT'S LEARNING TO LOVE THE PERSON YOU FOUND.

SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. It'll NEVERjust happen to you. You can't 'find' LASTING love. You have to 'make' it day in and day out. That's why we have the expression 'the labor of love.'
Because it takes time, effort, and energy. And most importantly, it takes WISDOM. You have to know WHAT TO DO to make your marriage work.

Make no mistake about it. Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things you can do (with or without your spouse) to succeed with your marriage.

Just as there are physical laws of the universe (such as gravity), there are also laws for relationships.
Just as the right diet and exercise program makes you physically stronger, certain habits in your relationship
WILL make your marriage stronger. It's a direct cause and effect. If you know and apply the laws, the results are predictable... you can 'make' love.

Love in marriage is indeed a 'decision'... Not just a feeling.
Remember always this:

'God determines who walks into your life.It is up to you to decide who you let to walk away,who you let to stay, and who you refuse to let go.

Why do people decide to abort innocent lives instead of giving them up for adoption?

What I don't get is how anyone could be "anti-life" as such. After looking at Yahoo Answers, most of the people who answer questions to do with abortion say that it is a good thing in ALL cases! People who agree with abortion normally says these things:

1)"Oh the baby isn't even alive yet!" - This has not been proven true by science. People say that babies would not be able to feel it, but as the point when life begins has not been proven yet, how do you know?

2)"That baby could grow up to be the next Hitler, etc...." - This is very unlikely, and you haven't even given the baby a chance to prove itself! Were you killed as an infant because of the possibility you could be a tyrant? If you're reading this, then no.

3) "Adoption is potentially dangerous for the child." - Um, and killing it isn't?

4)" Unplanned pregnancies should be terminated because of financial reasons or because the parents are too young ." - Adoption is potentially a kinder option to the child.

So, having put these issues forward, can someone please justify why abortion is legal? I don't mean abortion for serious cases such as medical and traumatic reasons, I'm talking about the vast majority of abortions which carry no physical threat to the mother. Why do people decide to abort their children instead of adoption?

You clearly have never stepped into an orphanage.

No one loves them, no one wants them, they have nothing.


You make it sound as if every child gets adopted. They don't. Once they reach the age of 5, no one wants them. Once they turn 18 they get kicked out onto the streets to fend for themselves.


They have issues. They don't understand how to socialise, how to trust, how to love. They cannot understand and they have some real issues due to the frustration.



There are things worse than death you know...

We're against abortion!

Hi, Mommy. I'm your baby. You don't know me yet, I'm only a few weeks old. You're going to find out about me soon, though, I promise. Let me tell you some things about me. My name is John, and I've got beautiful brown eyes and black hair. Well, I don't have it yet, but I will when I'm born. I'm going to be your only child, and you'll call me your one and only. I'm going to grow up without a daddy mostly, but we have each other. We'll help each other, and love each other. I want to be a doctor when I grow up.

You found out about me today, Mommy! You were so excited, you couldn't wait to tell everyone. All you could do all day was smile, and life was perfect. You have a beautiful smile, Mommy. It will be the first face I will see in my life, and it will be the best thing I see in my life. I know it already.

Today was the day you told Daddy. You were so excited to tell him about me! ...He wasn't happy, Mommy. He kind of got angry. I don't think that you noticed, but he did. He started to talk about something called wedlock, and money, and bills, and stuff I don't think I understand yet. You were still happy, though, so it was okay. Then he did something scary, Mommy. He hit you. I could feel you fall backward, and your hands flying up to protect me. I was okay... but I was very sad for you. You were crying then, Mommy. That's a sound I don't like. It doesn't make me feel good. It made me cry, too. He said sorry after, and he hugged you again. You forgave him, Mommy, but I'm not sure if I do. It wasn't right. You say he loves you... why would he hurt you? I don't like it, Mommy.

Finally, you can see me! Your stomach is a little bit bigger, and you're so proud of me! You went out with your mommy to buy new clothes, and you were so so so happy. You sing to me, too. You have the most beautiful voice in the whole wide world. When you sing is when I'm happiest. And you talk to me, and I feel safe. So safe. You just wait and see, Mommy. When I am born I will be perfect just for you. I will make you proud, and I will love you with all of my heart.

I can move my hands and feet now, Mommy. I do it because you put your hands on your belly to feel me, and I giggle. You giggle, too. I love you, Mommy.

Daddy came to see you today, Mommy. I got really scared. He was acting funny and he wasn't talking right. He said he didn't want you. I don't know why, but that's what he said. And he hit you again. I got angry, Mommy. When I grow up I promise I won't let you get hurt! I promise to protect you. Daddy is bad. I don't care if you think that he is a good person, I think he's bad. But he hit you, and he said he didn't want us. He doesn't like me. Why doesn't he like me, Mommy?

You didn't talk to me tonight, Mommy. Is everything okay?

It's been three days since you saw Daddy. You haven't talked to me or touched me or anything since that. Don't you still love me, Mommy? I still love you. I think you feel sad. The only time I feel you is when you sleep. You sleep funny, kind of curled up on your side. And you hug me with your arms, and I feel safe and warm again. Why don't you do that when you're awake, any more?

I'm 21 weeks old today, Mommy. Aren't you proud of me? We're going somewhere today, and it's somewhere new. I'm excited. It looks like a hospital, too. I want to be a doctor when I grow up, Mommy. Did I tell you that? I hope you're as excited as I am. I can't wait.

...Mommy, I'm getting scared. Your heart is still beating, but I don't know what you are thinking. The doctor is talking to you. I think something's going to happen soon. I'm really, really, really scared, Mommy. Please tell me you love me. Then I will feel safe again. I love you!

Mommy, what are they doing to me!? It hurts! Please make them stop! It feels bad! Please, Mommy, please please help me! Make them stop!

Don't worry Mommy, I'm safe. I'm in heaven with the angels now. They told me what you did, and they said it's called an abortion.

Why, Mommy? Why did you do it? Don't you love me any more? Why did you get rid of me? I'm really, really, really sorry if I did something wrong, Mommy. I love you, Mommy! I love you with all of my heart. Why don't you love me? What did I do to deserve what they did to me? I want to live, Mommy! Please! It really, really hurts to see you not care about me, and not talk to me. Didn't I love you enough? Please say you'll keep me, Mommy! I want to live smile and watch the clouds and see your face and grow up and be a doctor. I don't want to be here, I want you to love me again! I'm really really really sorry if I did something wrong. I love you!


I love you, Mommy.

Every abortion is just…

One more heart that was stopped.
Two more eyes that will never see.
Two more hands that will never touch.
Two more legs that will never run.
One more mouth that will never speak.

If you’re against abortion, repost.




And so abortion is treated like an eraser? I seriously think that there is no right for people to abort an unborn child. 

That's ... partially true ...

Dear Evon Low, below are Prediction result of Your Future Married Life:

How will you choose your Mr Right? No matter how many men you have beating a path to your front door, when it comes to picking Mr Right, you'll listen to your parents. Not only will you become weary of all your suitors, deep down you don't quite trust your own judgment.

Who will be your future Mr Right?: 

Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ :Your real-life hero will be manly

Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ :He'll be dependable

Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ :Even financially

Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ :He will protect you and always respect your feelings

Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ :He'll probably be quite a bit older than you

When will you get married?: 

Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ :As soon as you fall in love

Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ :You'll want to grab your man and hang on to him

Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ :You will probably marry very young

Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ :So it would be wise of you to think carefully before committing

What sort of wife will you be?: 

Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ :If your hubby is crazy enough to ask you to do silly things

Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ :You may as well have fun with him

Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ :You'll make a fun-loving wife

Will you and your husband have a good time togethe: 

Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ :You and your spouse will choose to spend time on more romantic activit

Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ :You won't end up quite as healthy

Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ :But you'll have plenty of fun going out for drinks

Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ :Watching concerts or playing cards at home with other friends

What will your children be like?: 

Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ :Your kids will be very naughty

Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ :They are lively and smart

How loyal are you?: 

Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ :You are a cool chick! You pretend not to care about the many men you a

Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ :But they just keep coming back for more

Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ :When you are married

Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ :You won't be a loyal kind