Saturday, February 19, 2011

Friends Come And Go. Do they really? Or is it just me?

In life, We gotta accept that friends come and go. No point being sad cause the ones that go will just totally forget you. - My friend posted this on his fb. I completely agreed with his statement. 


Friends do come and go. It's true. And it hurts. Sadly, it's how it'll always be - unless you're really good at keeping friendships. Yeah. I come and go & they come and go. I've had a lot of friends, and only a few close friends that I can really call my 'best friends'. They do walk into my life and walk out again. There is a reason for coming and leaving, it maybe a blessing, a gift, an experience, a lesson. (:


It's really hard to find those lifelong friends who will always be at your side. One of the things that I want most in this world is to find that friend who will stand by my side no matter what. I made and left tons of friends throughout my life. I know the friends I have right now are going to leave me. Its a little bit sad. ):


Actually, it's like a sad fact but there are lots of happy times and stupid times to remember. It's for us to try to keep the ones we want to keep, even calling them up out of the blue. I know we're kind of separated. We drifted apart. But oh well, that's how life is. Even though we've drifted apart and rarely talk, they're the ones who made me into the person I am today. (It's a bit dramatic, I know.) 


Life was so much simpler when you were younger. You were much more innocent. You didn't choose your friends based on how wealthy they are, the color of their skin, etc. It does happen, since people do change, grow up, and life leads them into different directions. So never be sad if they leave you because the better is coming. ;)


I believe the the majority of people you meet will come and go. Whether they will ever come back in your life is a different matter. Most of them go since what is the chances that you will have really strong and good relationships with everyone? Sigh...


One of my friends told me there are some people you can be friends with for life. Even if it does not mean being around each other everyday or something, keeping in touch occasionally or every once in awhile is still good. Those types of friends are hard to find though. Most of them just forget people. This is really seriously true! It's sad but it's natural. There are very few friends that stay with you until the end. =/



I find it's kinda funny. But I will replace the last sentence with ; I AM GONNA PUSH YOU DOWN! :P

I just gotta say people change,lives change and just cherish every moment you have/share with each otherFriends may come and go, but true friends stay behind your back, ready to catch you if you fall. Friends only come and go if both of you don't put an effort to keep the friendship. So, if you really cherish your friends, hold onto them then, don't let them go. :)





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